…the elements of attractiveness graciously offered here are superb and worthy of my attention, and at this point in my life, are practices that engender self respect (me liking myself) and an expression of gratitude for the gift of human existence – thank you for the inspiration
To be immersed in life and to be confident enough to be as weird as possible to add vibrancy to the planet and keep the interest compounding for as long as we breathe.
Great read, save to be able to reference it! I am absolutely with you. Looks are very important and we don’t even have to discuss that. But real attraction the one that last is so much more and all you explore is very interesting
A very simple but impactful write up on being the ‘attraction’! A lot of people wonder about how they can be more attractive and almost all the advice is rubbish, you’ve got things in your list that are do-able and real and yes they work!
Attraction is incredibly nuanced and complex. I have been attracted to people I never thought I would be and I go through phases on what and whom I find attractive.
I was always told to be “both interested and interesting” - love that phrase, and what you’ve captured here!
I love that — that saying really encapsulates what I was talking about it. Thanks for sharing 😊
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…the elements of attractiveness graciously offered here are superb and worthy of my attention, and at this point in my life, are practices that engender self respect (me liking myself) and an expression of gratitude for the gift of human existence – thank you for the inspiration
To be immersed in life and to be confident enough to be as weird as possible to add vibrancy to the planet and keep the interest compounding for as long as we breathe.
So true. Especially about the hobbies, that’s what makes you YOU.
Yes exactly!!
100%. a red flag if someone has no hobbies🥲
Learned it the hard way
Loved this!
Thank you!!
Great read, save to be able to reference it! I am absolutely with you. Looks are very important and we don’t even have to discuss that. But real attraction the one that last is so much more and all you explore is very interesting
Yes! I think this is something we also tend to learn as we get older and wiser. Looks are only a fraction of the equation
Thank you so much for this amazing piece! 👏🏽🫶🏾
Thank you! 😊
amazing piece
Thank you!
A very simple but impactful write up on being the ‘attraction’! A lot of people wonder about how they can be more attractive and almost all the advice is rubbish, you’ve got things in your list that are do-able and real and yes they work!
Yes exactly! Happy you enjoyed 🤍
beautiful piece
Thank you 🫶🏼
such a beautiful read!
Thank you so much!
Bisous (en canadien)
Attraction is incredibly nuanced and complex. I have been attracted to people I never thought I would be and I go through phases on what and whom I find attractive.
Beautifully written!
Thank you so much!
Validate yourself first, and other people will naturally like you.